When a Man Finds Out That His Relationship is Just Casual Sex

December 18, 2013

I was talking to one of my homeboys and he was telling me that his girlfriend of 3 years dropped a bomb on him. What he considered a relationship is just casual sex in her mind. After trying to get him to commit to marriage she just decided to use him for sex and put her feelings on hold. I’m posting about this because it opened my eyes up to what’s a real relationship? How long can you date a person before you give up on going to the next level? And how many people are having casual sex and think that they are in a real relationship?

Now my friend is trying to get it together and marry her and she acts like she don’t want that anymore(well not with him) and he thinks the term Casual Sex opens the door for her to have more partners.

What do you think?

4 thoughts on “When a Man Finds Out That His Relationship is Just Casual Sex”

Sumtingwong Witchu Saunders says:

December 18, 2013 at 8:22 pm

Ooooohhhhh, I see…..this dude needs to decide to love himself enough to know when enough is enough. A woman viewing the relationship as casual sex is the end result of how she was treated. NEXT!!!!!

O_O

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DeRon Gilbert says:

December 18, 2013 at 8:00 pm

its best to leave it alone like Dino said because thats how many people got killed over

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Dino Simmons says:

December 18, 2013 at 7:59 pm

A woman has their mind made up the second they meet us! Lol! It's up to us men to play our cards right!

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Dino Simmons says:

December 18, 2013 at 7:40 pm

He just needs to call it quits and move on because she can't make him happy if she's not. On top of that, it seems as if he had issues with commitment at the beginning which probably turned her off. Now that she dropped the bomb on him, he wants to change because he doesn't want to lose her. They basically changed places in their feelings on commitment! They need to sever all ties and go their separate ways!

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