She posted the following message on Instagram:
“I woke up this morning feeling like I had a horrible nightmare, feeling like I’m mourning the death of the my closest friend. But to have to accept the fact that it’s reality is a nightmare in itself.
No one knows the pain that the media & unwanted options from the public have caused my family. To make us relive a moment in our lives that we regret everyday is horrible thing. To take something away from the man I love that he has worked his ass off for all his life just to gain ratings is a horrific. THIS IS OUR LIFE! What don’t you all get. If your intentions were to hurt us, embarrass us, make us feel alone, take all happiness away, you’ve succeeded on so many levels. Just know we will continue to grow & show the world what real love is! Ravensnation we love you!”
Yes, she was living the high life, when you have been battered it’s hard, a person goes through many emotions! I’m sure he did his part to convince her to stay! It’s called the Honeymoon period! She’s young too! Let’s pray for her that she will love herself more, find her self worth, and self- esteem, and build a relationship with God! Who will love her unconditionally ! IJS !!
Yeah she’s sad and she’s playing the victim. Their own actions that night and afterward are to blame. Period.
There’s a lesson that ALL abused spouses should take heed to……..
#NeverTakeTheStairs
They really should blame themselves. When you are in the public eye, keep your skeletons behind closed doors, not behind elevator doors
I agree Tara Scott Moore
Has to take responsibility of self, she knew she was in a high profile relationship, & society feeds off of everyone elses misery & negativity. Its the way of the world.
Well that is what she should tell the owners. That she doesn’t mind getting beat on. I am all about forgiveness. But dont blame the media. They only have what is there. Domestic violence caught on tape. No one is trying to hurt her. We as people have been trying to stand up for abused women forever. Now when people stand up for it speak out against it. Thinking she needs help. She is saying no, I am ok with this.
This sad but I’m not surprised. So many of desire that glamour lifestyle that we will even put our own lives in jeopardy to maintain. Remember she married him after this. It most likely wasn’t the first time but it is what she chose, money and high life. Now she is worried the money want last. Classic example of selling your soul.
As a the victim, she must file charges before he can be arrested. Otherwise its considered a domestic dispute and nothing will be done, unless he kills her.
Double jeopardy. Now he should hang until the bowel breaks. Nobody’s screaming about these police officers that keep beating their wives.
#WhitePriviledge
Going to jail isn’t gonna correct this issue. Everything is already HER fault. If he gets locked up, she’ll need to be in protective custody. Hell, that’s not gonna work neither, “We’re at 1100 Pennsylvania Avenue!!!! I’ll meet you at the gate!!!!”
now they are on the air asking why Ray isn’t in jail for assault after the video aired????
Yes. You. Did!
I went from Sumtingwong to Rodney. Joie!? LMAO!!!! 😉
She married him after all of that… I bet it was for the money.. Now look what she has, an abusive husband and no money… Greed
Same scenario different player JOIE!!!! 😛
Some do. Some don’t. Rodney.
Ok, Joie. Then they choose another dude with “whoop dat ass” potential. (when they leave him)
Kingsmen…………More than you want to imagine. The sad part, is that we learn to hide it well for a long time. By the time anyone truly learns what is happening to you, its been going on for months & years. True Sumtingwong, they do go back; but not everyone goes right back and not everyone stays.
The media could only show us what happened, Ray mayweathered her and then dragged her out that elevator and she STILL married him…so low self esteem/greed ruined her life
Porsha Jackson
#NotJudgingHim
#HelpingGodOut
Lord KNOWS if that were one of my babies, I’d deliver his ass.
#BOOM
I’ve spoken to SEVERAL!!!! They go RIGHT back to it.
#ICannotSaveTheWorld
this is scary because a lot of women are going through this.
The first impact her legs were GONE!!!! She stumbles toward him for balance, he hits her again. LIGHTS OUT!!!!
#CowardiceShit
I’m gonna stand down. I’ll become so damned IRATE!!!!! (sad sad sad decision)
#ShesAccustomedToIt
#MediaShouldaLeftWellEnoughBe
#ThisIsHerDefinitionOfAffection
I agree. @joie
Daisy, she has to want help. She has to take a self affirming look at herself and honestly acknowledge her part in her own demise. Without that she will continue to be a victim. Unfortunately, she has beaten to a place where she has NO voice. NO thought. NO identity. NO existence without this man. Until SHE awakens, she’ll continue to be a sleeper. I remember the moment like it was yesterday when I officially woke up and began taking my life back. I was a size 0/ 98 lbz (NEVER in my life had I been so small). And that power to fight for myself didn’t come from family, friends or the media; it came from GOD. It came from prayer. It came from my children. It came from seeing that man for the monster he is and wanting no more to do with him or that “Millionaire Lifestyle” I was living. Honey, I may not have what I had; but I damn sure can tell you, I sleep every night knowing GOD blessed me to be here another day. Cause at the end, either he was going to kill me or I was going to kill him.
Domestic violence is wrong by all means but it sounds as if she good with it, so he might actually whoop some sense in her.
Just terrible! Kingsmen White .. you’re right though. She is equally as sick and I hope she gets help before it’s too late.
her message is if you see a woman getting beat you should mind your own business because you could ruin her happy life!!!
Sumtingwong Witchu Saunders yes I already know it’s coming
Joie Willis-Sims I said that yesterday when he hit her he didn’t look worried at all. like he done it before. even if he hit her for the first time and she falls like that he would pick her up in your arms and get her some immediate attention. he dragged her out by her arms and and had her on the ground like a rag doll!
Amen Joie!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, the media it’s the 4th component of the government. That is there job, to show negative after negative imagine of black folks, by saying that I don’t agree or believe in hitting women
Kingsmen White? Remember what I said about potential “head trauma” yesterday and to stay tuned?
As a survivor of domestic violence, I’m going to speak from the heart. This woman is in a state of great denial. Let me be the first to say it, this man has beaten her before. She has taken so many ass whoopins from him that she actually believes that this is love. Honey, I’m sorry to tell you that you have no ideal how blessed you are to even be alive right now. this man not only knocked her flat out; he drug her lifeless body from the elevator like it wasn’t anything. To marry him a month later speaks volumes and to have the audacity to accuse the PUBLIC of doing this to their family is ideal of anyone who has been victimized. Even sadder is the fact that she has been trained, manipulated and brainwashed to believe this nonsense. Trust me. BELIEVE me, when I tell you that it’s HER fault this happened to HIM is what she’s going to be beaten for continually. She has no voice, she lost that the first time he beat her and she took him back. Look at her face. Look at her disposition. Her body language says it all. I don’t have to imagine the horror of her daily life; I lived it. Baby girl needs to wake up and realize that no man, no amount of money is worth all that. #7YearsFree #DomesticViolenceSurvivor #RealLoveDoesNotHit
Fame & MONEY!!! SMH she don’t have a clue
She was caught up on the money. She must’ve had low self esteem or something to even allow him to hit her. That wasn’t the first time and won’t be the last.
Wow! Poor baby!