Having a talk with my homies and this was our discussion of the day so I thought I would ask my social media family HOW they feel about this???? Leave a comment and share with friends!
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By KINGSMEN
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It will be on a mutual thing
I couldn’t WAIT to weight in on this topic. With the astronomical divorce rates and underlying culprit being money, the mindset ‘I pay the cost to be the boss’ is COMPLETELY mundane. Chris Amill Sr, I cannot express appreciation enough for your statement. When people get married, it’s not for the purpose of voluntarily entering servitude to the capacity that either party holds more weight than the other. It’s said that a fool and his money are soon departed. That WHOLE cliche tends to leave a person disillusioned and the relationship strained to the point of breaking. We live together, we eat together. PERIOD. NO “I” IN TEAM!
I already know Tammie Reed LOL
Now you know what I am going to say lol.
It depends on how your relationship is set up… Maybe he’s the bread winner but wants his woman to handle everything because she does it better & vise versa… But if that isn’t the case, decisions “should” be made as a team or in the best interest of your family
Decisions are made together but there are times that I have ti do what I feel is besr for ALL of us & I expect her to do the same… Its no longer about her & I, we have sons so every decision we make must be based off of all of us… So its not about who has the biggest check because if I make the most or if I’m unemployed, we have to make decisions that are best for all us & although egos may get in the way, paychecks won’t…!!!!
Its a work together thing… and i think that a man that wont stand up and say something when it is goin on has no backbone…. my grandma use to call them jellybacks….. but no it shouldn’t matter its a team effort
Strong point Jason Jennings
Eye am a strong black man, blessed with a strong black Queen! No doubt we both can make it on our own. Sometimes eye need her to make the correct move for us. As a man we see the world in black and white,on all levels.. but our Queens have that velvet touch thats needed to calm the storm,!!
Kisha Simmons that’s what I’m saying but everyone don’t feel that way! . I know a lot of women that make decisions about their kids without talking to the real father or the new boyfriend
No Kingsmen White there still needs to be some sort of Communication
Not about money we are talking about decision making and if the person that’s paying the bills making decisions
his money is mines…and my money is his….
No, a relationship is built between 2 people…..
They shouldn’t be like that especially in a marriage